Recently, a friend of mind and I were discussing the topic of commitment. I was sharing a situation where I felt that I needed to be ‘all in’ or not. Fence-sitting for too long can be uncomfortable.
Let me add here, that at times, I have been known to analyze, scrutinize, and over-think, a situation to death … and this was one of those times!
My friend Matt was telling me about a television show he watched where they asked a guy if he knew how to swim. The guy replied, “Sure, I watched videos on the internet and practiced on the kitchen floor!”
Matt was quick to follow up with, “Imagine someone thinking they could swim because they watched a video, rolled around on the floor, BUT never got in the water!”
It get worse!
He then said “So are you in … or are you out … you know you said those exact same words to me not too long ago … remember?”
One of the worst things about having a close friend is that they will remind you of things you told them when they were in a similar situation. One of the best things about having a close friend is that you can trust them to tell you the truth … even when it stings.
What’s The Point?
- You can’t swim … until you get in the water.
- You won’t realize your dreams … until you take a step to act-u-a-l-i-z-e them.
- You aren’t a leader …. because you read a book on leadership or have a title!
- You aren’t a parent … if you’ve never raised kids!
- You will never experience love … if you’re not willing to be open your heart, take a risk, and let it in!
If you truly want and desire something you have to be willing to take a leap of faith and jump into the deep end of the pool. And you have to do it … even if you’re afraid.
A lot of people have dreams and desires … few people are willing to risk what it takes to experience them.
Bill Cosby once said, In order to succeed, your desire for success should (must) be greater than your fear of failure.
So do you need to jump in the pool in some area of your life?
If so … my wish for you is that you choose … the deep end?